. >> a date night, especially for the bride and groom. talking about invitations who you want to invite, whether they can bring a plus one. that's usually on the invitation. what if somebody comes to you after the fact asking to bring someone? what is the polite way of saying you already have a head count and you can't go over it? >> just what you said. a polite way is, you're on a budget. you can't go over the count. currently, until all the rsvps are in, you must decline that plus one. if it changes, then go ahead and do it. a good rule for guests being invited, if it says mr. john smith, then that means you're jsut invited by yourself. >> by yourself. and i can't help but notice the beautiful flowers here. how important are flowers? you brought these in. >> i did. >> they can be costly as well. >> they c bouteasnd l blooms. hydrangeas. flowers that take up a lot of space. if you use them, you don't ha to use as many. flowers are an integral part. it really does set the tone. they're beautiful. you don't have to go crazy. you don't have